Ever think about where you come from?
I'm not talking about your great great who ever that sailed, walked, rode in a wagon, etc.
I'm talking about what made you who you are. Where did you learn what makes you who you are right now??
What developed YOU into YOU?
I've been thinking a lot about that lately... maybe it's watching two very different boys grow... maybe it's the fact that we have had a lot of family around lately, and I love to sit and look at how different everyone is... even though we have similar features.
There are things I see in myself that I learned from my parents.

My mom is a knitter, and while I prefer crochet because it's faster, she taught me that having a little yarn in my hands can help me sit still long enough to actually enjoy a TV show or movie.... or a conversation. She also taught me to embroidery... and how to cook (honestly, why follow a recipe???). She taught me pretty much all the other soft girly skills I never learned in home ec.
My dad can build a table or box or anything you want out of wood... without blue prints. He taught me the love of beautiful wood. He also taught me how to take the things I invision and make them materialize with the work of my hands. He instilled in me the love of old things... the smell, the feel, the history that comes with every piece that has been held by more than one owner.
They have both taught me to use the brain I have rattling around in my head. They taught me to be inquisitive and to just FIGURE things out. If I want to learn how to do something, I jump in and try give it a go. I may be timid in some areas, but finding solutions... learning... that's just not one of them.
No, I am not able to master everything I try. But they taught me to try.
I think something else they taught me, for better or worse, is that following directions is for the unimaginative and unskilled! Nothing frustrates me more than a list of steps that cannot be deviated from. I love structure, I hate following directions. I think that's why I like to learn things on my own, rather than take a class or uhhh... read directions. Yes, I end up swearing a little more than I should. Yes, it would probably go faster, smoother, whatever... if I just did. But that is SO not me. For me, it's about understanding WHY a process is a certain way. If I never challenge the directions, I won't understand completely WHY it works. For example, the science behind cooking. If I know how a cake will rise, and can manipulate ingredients in a manner that makes it taste the way I want, while following the science of cooking to make it rise, I have mastered it. And that makes me happy.
So, my parents are to blame. Just so you know.